SEX EDUCATION FOR YOUR KIDS

READ FOR YOUR CHILDREN’S SAKE!!!

As a follow-up on sex education, kindly
review the topic with children by asking them these questions regularly:

Question 1: Mention the two types of body parts.
Ans: ? Public parts & Private parts.

Question 2: What are private parts
Ans: ?Your personal body parts. (Your own) That no one should touch, look at or play with.

Question 3: What parts of the body make up each private part?
Ans? Boys: Penis, Scrotum, Anus, Lap, Buttocks....Lips
Girls: Vagina, Breast, Lap, Buttocks, Anus, Neck, Ears…Lips

Question 4: Mention the two types of touches.
Ans:  ?Good touch & Bad touch

Question 5: What is a good touch?
Ans: ? A Touch on any of the public parts.

Question 6: What is a bad touch?
Ans:  ?A touch on any of the private parts (or areas around them)

Question 7: What is it called when someone is trying to touch or play with your private parts or trying to get you to touch or play with his or her private part
Ans: ?Sexual Abuse

Question 8: What will happen to you if someone is trying to abuse you and you don't tell?
Ans: ?
•    The abuser will continue to abuse you and threaten you the more.
•    It will affect your studies because you won't be able to concentrate.
•    You will be unhappy/depressed.
•    You could be physically harmed and your life could be in danger
•    You could contract diseases- STDs/HIV/AIDS… Please, kindly explain more on this to them.

Question 9: Who are those that can abuse you?
Ans: ? Anybody.
(Explain to them here that anyone can sexually abuse them…Teacher, Pastor, Cousin, Sister, Brother, Father, Neighbor, Uncle, Doctor…ANYBODY)

Question 10: Say something about your lips.
Ans: ? No one must kiss me on my lips not even my mum & dad.

Question 11: Where can sexual abuse take place?
Ans: ? Anywhere
(Explain to them that sexual abuse can happen in the car, on the bus, in the church toilet, in the school toilet, in the hospital, in the classroom, at home…ANYWHERE)

Question 12: What do abusers tell their victims & are those things true? 
Ans: ?
•    " I will kill you,'   
•     'Your mummy and your daddy will die’
•     ‘You will die if you tell anyone about it’
•     'Your parents will not believe you...No one will believe you'
•    ‘They will blame you and beat you'
•    ‘I will stop buying you nice things’-IF THE PREDATOR IS A PARENT OR STEP-PARENT OR FOSTER PARENT OR RELATION
•    ‘I will stop loving you’-IF THE PREDATOR IS A PARENT, STEP-PARENT, FOSTER PARENT OR RELATION.

Parents, at this point, I want you all to note that some children don't tell when someone is sexually abusing them because some parents can be very 'TOUGH' and the children - extremely scared of the backlash from the parents. This is indeed a very delicate issue which must be addressed with the utmost self-restraint, maturity and caution!


Question 13: What are the things you should & should not do to avoid being sexually abused?
Ans? Don't go anywhere without your parent's consent.
Don't talk to strangers.
Don't allow anyone lie on you.
Don't allow anyone tell you to put off your clothes/pants.
No one must ever touch or play with your private parts.
You must tell at any attempt by anyone.
SCREAM, RUN, REPORT........and so on
Parents, add other things you believe they should avoid.

Here are some rhymes on Sex education
Hints:
* My body belongs to me…
* My head, my shoulder, my private parts…
* When you go to the bathroom anytime…
* If you touch my private parts, I will…

AN IMPORTANT NOTICE
kindly take note of the following actions which these young ones accused some parents of ...

•    Watching films where kissing & other intimate action occur
•    Dressing up in their presence.
•    Bathing them together in the bathroom, either same sex or opposite sex (very wrong)
•    Sometimes leaving them naked in front of other siblings.
•    Entrusting them with people
•    Allowing uncles and daddies to play with their private parts
•    Sending them to buy things without a chaperon
•    Sending them to hawk or sell things alone
•    Sending them to neighbors alone
•    Leaving them alone with nannies they are unsure of
•    Leaving them alone with private tutors
•    Leaving them alone in the care of drivers
•    Not believing them

The list is endless

Please, take note of all these and avoid them and other similar unhelpful practices.
Conclusively, please let everyone be vigilant in looking after our kids.
Fathers, you have a responsibility to protect your children as much as mothers.
Do not abandon this obligation to your wives. They are your children too.

We must never be negligent regarding them and also know that No one, may be absolutely trusted with our kids. But, since you cannot always be with them all the time, please do review the session with them at least every month.
This will immunize them against becoming victims of terrible predators waiting out there to prey on little innocent ones.
Also, remember to pray for your children. The truth is no matter how much you do not believe in God, so far as you have children, you need His help. Children are vulnerable and often helpless.
No matter how careful and vigilant you are, you cannot be in two places at the same time. And all a sexual, predator need is one minute, 2 minutes, 3 minutes to finger your child.
You also are not perfect. Someday, you will not be as careful, cautious and vigilant as you should; one day, you will be in a position where you cannot protect those kids.
Always ask God to protect your children.
Teach your children how to pray for themselves too.
You will not regret it.

Remember that the person that can sexually molest your child is someone known, trusted and often loved by your child.

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